2,500 Shades of Grey
/Recently I attended the annual Aging in America Conference, hosted by the American Society on Aging (ASA). Movie puns aside, aging issues are multifaceted, and dare I say, exciting.
Read MoreKey words: Fairley Parson writings, therapy, clinical work, san francisco, grief, anxiety, counselor, lgbt, queer, counseling
Recently I attended the annual Aging in America Conference, hosted by the American Society on Aging (ASA). Movie puns aside, aging issues are multifaceted, and dare I say, exciting.
Read MoreJust as white people must confront white supremacy and men must disrupt misogyny, younger people must take on ageism— in themselves, in their work, and in their communities. Real intersectionality must include age-identities. The time is now.
Read MoreFirst published in Aging Today, the bimonthly newspaper of the American Society on Aging,
ISSN: 1043-1284 May-June 2014, volume xxxv number 3.
Lori, a 69-year-old self-described “old butch dyke,” sits in the community room at Openhouse, a San Francisco lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) senior social service organization. She speaks of her participation in an LGBT intergenerational program, and laments her lack of lesbian visibility.
“I joined the program because I could walk into a lesbian bar with my short haircut, and pink triangle tattoo, waving a rainbow flag, and the women there would ask me if I was lost or looking for my granddaughter. They don’t see me,” she said.
But Selwyn wasn’t just rubbing shoulders with the bohemian elite, he was involved, creating art, and seeking engagement — a participant, not a spectator. Ask and he just might tell you about a rather standout en-counter with the Michel Foucault at a local bath house.
Read MoreFairley Parson is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW # 76624). Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSW) are Licensed by the State Board of Behavioral Sciences (BBS) in California. Applicants for licensure must possess a Master's Degree in Social Work from a graduate school accredited by the Council on Social Work Education (CSWE), complete a course on California Law and Professional Ethics, pass the California Law and Professional Ethics Exam, accrue 3,200 hours of supervised clinical work with at least 2,000 of those hours in the areas of clinical psychological diagnosis, assessment, treatment, and counseling, take additional required coursework, and pass the Association for Social Work Clinical Board Exam.